Cleaning up before our date arrives So how can we learn to prepare ourselves for our true soul mate. 1. Take inventory of your life if you had any type of abuse, whether it was sexual, emotional, psychological manipulation, etc. Deal with it! Even if you need to book time with a therapist. 2. Forgive the offenders and don't say to them I forgive you, because some people are so sick, they will turn the tables and deny everything. 3. Practice self love by being more aware of people, be present and be aware. Take care of your health, get check ups, neccessary screenings. Mediate! 4. Notice the red flags in people Any form of anger is No, No, (I don't care of their position.) Jealousy certain people in a relationship men and women can't stand when another partner is more successful. Suspicious, is a major RED FLAG! 5. Allow good people to come into your life. If a person wants to listen to you for hours on the phone, without phone sex, you have a winner. 6. Write down...