Do You Personality Profile?
We all heard of racial profiling, this summer in the USA.
However, have you ever been in a group of people and you had falling out with one person, then you stop associating with the whole group?
This is called personality profiling- when people judge the actions of others based on their associations.
How many times have we missed out developing great relationships with people, just because of their association.
I know you have heard people say "birds of a feather, flock together." But truth is some people in a group are totally clueless that fractions exist within the group or people don't like each other.
So here are some helpful tips when you are getting ready to personality profile:
1. Write down who in the group has specifically offended you, how and why.
2. Write down your part in the situation.
3. Write down how you would like to resolve the situation between the offender and you.
4. If it is a group that you truly enjoy make a vow, not to let this person "run you away."
5. Key is if a person has offended you in the past, 9 times out of 10 they have done it to someone else.- Don't take it personal.
Cheers to the end of personality profiling!
However, have you ever been in a group of people and you had falling out with one person, then you stop associating with the whole group?
This is called personality profiling- when people judge the actions of others based on their associations.
How many times have we missed out developing great relationships with people, just because of their association.
I know you have heard people say "birds of a feather, flock together." But truth is some people in a group are totally clueless that fractions exist within the group or people don't like each other.
So here are some helpful tips when you are getting ready to personality profile:
1. Write down who in the group has specifically offended you, how and why.
2. Write down your part in the situation.
3. Write down how you would like to resolve the situation between the offender and you.
4. If it is a group that you truly enjoy make a vow, not to let this person "run you away."
5. Key is if a person has offended you in the past, 9 times out of 10 they have done it to someone else.- Don't take it personal.
Cheers to the end of personality profiling!
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