The Real Reason Why You Didn't Get the Woman or Man
Many people are surprised when they find out certain celebrities are still single or their model looking girl or guy friends are still single.
Upon my observations the real reasons why certain people attract toxicity and repel goodness are the following.
1. Over Estimating your looks.
I know this sounds crazy, but their are people who solely count on their physical appearance to get whatever they want in life. In watching the show Dating Naked, the goregous woman knew she had the looks and played into the awe of her good looks to try to snag the person that she wanted.
In the end the guy told her you are the most beautiful person here, but I am tired of playing games and I don't want to chase you.
2. Underestimating the Power of Character:
Many people believe to stomp on people, steal one's ideas, and spread heinous gossip about a person is cool. People will listen because it is entertaining, they may even laugh at your antics; however in the back of their mind they are thinking if this is what he/she does to people, I can or will never trust them because they will do it to me if I give them enough time. Work on your character to bring the right people into your life.
3. Lack of Control:
Sure you may have met her at a bar or was in awe by his new clothes; however if you are a binge drinker, complusive shopper, always on the Internet for no good reason then the man or woman of your dreams will run. No one wants anyone who lacks self-control or someone who has unresolved addiction issues.
4. Lack of Ambition:
Many confident men don't want to be a parent to a woman, if you are waiting for your Prince to Come, then think again many men admire women who can take care of themselves; especially financially.
5.Eratic Behavior:
No one wants anyone who will tell them to go to hell today and offer them tea and crumpets next week. People want and crave stability in their personal lives, especially during these times when layoffs seem to happen every week. A man or woman wants to know they can depend on someone to be the same.
Cheers to perfecting character in order to get the man/woman of your dreams!
Upon my observations the real reasons why certain people attract toxicity and repel goodness are the following.
1. Over Estimating your looks.
I know this sounds crazy, but their are people who solely count on their physical appearance to get whatever they want in life. In watching the show Dating Naked, the goregous woman knew she had the looks and played into the awe of her good looks to try to snag the person that she wanted.
In the end the guy told her you are the most beautiful person here, but I am tired of playing games and I don't want to chase you.
2. Underestimating the Power of Character:
Many people believe to stomp on people, steal one's ideas, and spread heinous gossip about a person is cool. People will listen because it is entertaining, they may even laugh at your antics; however in the back of their mind they are thinking if this is what he/she does to people, I can or will never trust them because they will do it to me if I give them enough time. Work on your character to bring the right people into your life.
3. Lack of Control:
Sure you may have met her at a bar or was in awe by his new clothes; however if you are a binge drinker, complusive shopper, always on the Internet for no good reason then the man or woman of your dreams will run. No one wants anyone who lacks self-control or someone who has unresolved addiction issues.
4. Lack of Ambition:
Many confident men don't want to be a parent to a woman, if you are waiting for your Prince to Come, then think again many men admire women who can take care of themselves; especially financially.
5.Eratic Behavior:
No one wants anyone who will tell them to go to hell today and offer them tea and crumpets next week. People want and crave stability in their personal lives, especially during these times when layoffs seem to happen every week. A man or woman wants to know they can depend on someone to be the same.
Cheers to perfecting character in order to get the man/woman of your dreams!
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